Don't pay them to do shade tree mechanics on your vehicle, they'll exchange new parts for the cash and you get the old parts put back in or they didn't do it at all. They smoked crack or drank whiskey while pretending to be working hard on your vehicle. Don't spend time with them on their terms or at their place, they have monkeys or imps, friends that are robbing you blind while your making googly eyes with each other. Narcissist can be your lover, husband, mother, father, brother, sister, aunt, uncle, cousin, or even your own child. I gave birth to a couple narcissist and they took me out of life time and again. It's not a matter of will they rob and hurt me, it's a matter of they will beat, use and rob you. Before all is said and done between you and your narcissist, you may have to endure watching them romance the new victim, in your now ex partner's arms where you used to feel comfort and security, on their porch or special place you both used to love to be together at. A narcissist don't stop till they own all your belongings, all your money, used up your devotion, and they have expired all use for you. When your broke they lean on previous victims, ex fucks or family, if they still open the door to them. I have walked off from many violent, abusive narcissists with just the shorts and shirt on my back, no shoes or money. It's a fact that every where around the world one out of five women will be beat and raped in their lifetime. This is a fact that I don't agree with, I believe it's way higher than that. Disruptions in daily life that are necessary to escape a stalker can include changes in employment, residence, vehicle, and phone numbers. I truly hope these actions can help you regain a sense of personal clarity, pride in yourself, confidence, peace of mind, and empowerment once again as you recover from the narcissist’s horrifying, painful, expensive mind games. Remember that a peace of mind is always expensive and painful, never free when dealing with a narcissist. As I went through life, people and life misstreated me, so I looked at like it's a given. In my case men were always beating and raping me and of course I get pregnent and they take my baby and kick me out. No mother of the men or even friends I had liked me, I guess because I was a drug addict and alcoholic. No one becomes an alcoholic overnight and for no reasons. Most become an alcoholic because of intense sadness that no wants to hear about. So as I went through life, each time a man/men  beat me, got me pregnent, takes my baby out of my arms or hated me, I drown it all out by getting drunker and drunker. Alcoholics will find ways of supporting their alcoholism. With me I worked two or three jobs to afford to be an alcoholic. I was beat and raped many times in life and there were only a few times in life when sex was consensual. Even after my stomach exploded and all hopes of getting all my babies back that were taken from me, I was still an alcoholic, always chasing some type of alcohol. I've been sober now for over forty years. Risks behavior? What if you had the choice to give birth to a highly intelligent, but abusive, sludge of society person's babies? Would we want their sperm for their intelligence or not want it because they're abusive? Abuse isn't in DNA, it's a choice they make. Narcissist, rapist, murderers, and abusive people should not continue blaming the way they were raised. Separating yourself from your past does not define what we can become. Ask yourself this; Would you abort a healthy baby born with the DNA from one or more of these monsters or a healthy baby born as a result of incest rape or would you kill the baby? When people say, "Your not alone," they really mean it. Women across the entire world who have been abused and raped do cry over what has happened to you. When we hear of beatings and rapes on the news, we cry with you! You are not alone is not just an empty statement concerning abuse, narcissist, rapes, beating, and verbal abuse.